My mother is in the process of getting all her papers in order. When my father died I was able to see the will and realize that everything goes to my brother. My mother has been threatening to leave me nothing when she dies…just because. I have done nothing to her in reality to have her feel that way. It has been that way since I was born. My brother has always been the favorite. I have always been the outsider. Since birth. Why? I am not sure. Well, I did have a chance to read the will and everything does go to my brother. It make me mad in a way. I have done far better in life than he in terms of life, work and education. Yet it is not good enough for mom. I still mean nothing to her and have not accomplished nothing in life…according to her. So it all goes to my brother.
When my father died, it was me and my child that my mother wanted to move in with her. We did. We gave up our home of 12 years, a cat we loved…she was like a 2nd child to me and for who? My mother. And for what? Aparrently nothing. She has redone the will in the last month and from all the things she has said recently, it still all goes to my brother. Yet, I am the one living with her, driving her around to her doctor and social appointments. She cannot see to drive anymore. Her vison is leaving her and she is going blind. I have to take off my job at work to get her to the doctor. I do most of the cooking in the house for her and me and my child. I do her yardwork for her. She can’t do a whole lot now. And just about anything else she asks Ido to help her. Why? I will get nothing when she dies.
It is not like I am asking her for anything. She is always telling me this…..that nothing is coming to me, nothing is in my name and never will be. So why is it me that she is calling to move in with her and take her. Why is she not calling on my brother and sister in law? Why am I living with her. There is no point. I feel like the one who gets should be the one who does. I have never felt like that until now. It is constantly being thrown up to me. She has asked my brother to come at the end of this month to claim what he wants in the house.
Me? Nothing has been asked of me. The only thing she is now saying is that she wants me to now move out of her house by July 1st. She has come up with this about 3 weeks ago.
